Transforming Pain into Love

Our Why Catholic? group met to discuss the sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick, but it seemed that before we could do that, we had to understand something about sickness & death in themselves first. We discussed our various personal experiences & also more public ones, such as Terri Shaivo & Pope John Paul II. Obviously, man has searched for ways to deal with sickness, injury, suffering, & death since the beginning, yet these days, men's minds & laws are increasingly tending toward the avoidance & elimination of any pain or suffering at all costs, with the predictable consequences making the headlines daily.

While the context of the excerpt is unknown, following is a lovely meditation from the Tueday, March 24 evening entry in the Magnificat magazine:

.....Everything we suffered appeared to us as a countenance of Jesus forsaken to be loved & wanted in order to be with him & like him, so that in union with him, by loving that suffering, we too might give life to ourselves & to many others.

.....Upon entering this path of unity we had chosen him alone. In a burst of love we had decided to suffer with him & like him. Well then, we have experience that God, who is nothin but love, cannot be outdone in generosity, & through a divine alchemy he transforms pain into love. In a word, he was making us into Jesus, whom we experienced in ourselves through the gifts of his Spirit, gifts which are summed up in love.

.....We realized that as soon as we were glad to endure any pain - so as to be abandoned like him who re-abandons himself to the Father - & we continued to love him by doing God's will, the next moment, the pain, if it was spiritual, went away &, if physical, became a yoke that was light.

.....Our pure love, that is, our gladness to suffer, transformed any pain we encountered into love. In a certain sense, suffering was divinized through Jesus' divinization of suffering, if we dare say so, continued in us.

.....After every meeting with Jesus forsaken, & we had loved him, we found God in a new way, more face to face, in a unity that was more complete. The fruits of the Spirit, light & joy, returned, & so did our peace - that special peace Jesus promised, & for which we felt it necessary to turn all torments, anguish, agonies of the soul, disturbances, & temptations into an occasion to love God.

.....Chara Lubich